I have been in a weird place the last couple weeks. I have over-analyzed others and second-guessed myself. I have been lonely in a crowd and it showed. I have been lazy with sadness and it hurts my productivity. I have been frustrated with negative results of positive effort. I have been disconnected from me. And why? Hell if I know. But hey, that's the good thing about doing a post. It can sometimes be cathartic. So bear with me and maybe it'll be helpful for you too someday.
I've taken my jumbled thoughts and feelings and got back to journaling the past few days. I used to write about everything everyday. Then life blew up and I got away from it. Focused on business and growing people around me in their businesses. One thing I've come to realize. There's a reason God took a day off. Not because HE needed it - He IS God. But because WE need it. He led by example. One that I felt I just didn't need. And now it's catching up with me in a big way. I've become my own worst nightmare - bitchy and unproductive.
Now, before any of you try to shower me with "you're Wonder Woman, you got this" kind of stuff, know that I have been telling myself that for days now. But I'm here to tell ya', even Wonder Woman got her ass kicked every once in awhile. She had to re-group on Paradise Island to heal, gather an army of Amazon warriors, and head back into battle another day. THAT's where I am now. Healing. As best I know how. One step at a time.
The first step for me was to get to the root of my issue. I know what that is, to prove I'm even worthy to exist. That's why getting ignored is so hurtful and not accomplishing things is unacceptable. Being responsible for myself is a big deal too, not to be reliant on others as a charity case. The next was to do some simple self-assessing. Using the same tools I use with my clients: personality, core values, life wheel, and others, I wrote it all out and compared to the same assessments I did at the first of the year. Not much had changed. Good in the sense I was still confident in who I was and what I was about, but not good in the sense of not seeing positive forward-moving results for myself in my life wheel vision. I'm bummed. And I've been second-guessing myself all week. But here's another thing I realized. I've not been living by the code.